Say “yes” to every invitation you get. Being social and building your other relationships is a great way to forget about your ex. But if you don’t notice any positive results, and/or are looking to leave the relationship, reach out to a friend, family member, or professional for help.
Social Media Plays a Role
If a man is kind, respectful, and there is some chemistry, I love with everything I have and they earn my loyalty. I have forgiven much with each of the men I have been with while we were together, but make no mistake. On Dec 31st, came in early from deer hunting to check on her.
Dealing with Shyness
There are plenty of attractive women in their 50’s and 60’s. Personally, I think it is odd that some of the people here consider 50 to be old. I guess it is a state of mind, you can be old at any age if you choose to.
I have my own scars and medical issues and the relentless pressure to be physically perfect is hurting many of us. But yes, there are certain things I am having a hard time getting past. I don’t want or need perfect anything but do want to be attracted enough to my wife to the point of looking forward to kissing and hugging her each day, and I can’t apologize for wanting that.
And yes, waking up to a kind partner in the morning would be absolute heaven to me. As young people, we are fed a line of BS that says that there will always be time, we can enjoy ‘golden years’ together playing shuffleboard and bingo with our friends. If you think I’m exaggerating, go to an amusement park with an eight year old and tell me how you feel at the end of the day.
So many very mentally ill women that are all over the place today, and i know other friends that had women curse at them too for no reason as well. What in the world is wrong with women today to act this way when there are many of us good men today that are very seriously looking for a relationship now? Feminism unfortunately is everywhere today as well. I have found this thread very interesting. I have just passed my one year anniversary of being divorced.
Be careful to avoid a rebound relationship. If you’ve been rejected by your crush, it’s normal to feel sad and be closed off. Give it time if you’re not ready to open up and be vulnerable, as this will pass.
You would think this would be enough for any man….but so far no takers. First, I want to say to keep up the hope that you’ll find a good woman that you deserve and who deserves YOU and the love you’ll give her. Not all of us shallow, money grubbing strumpets ; but I get your fear. There are too many people–both women AND men–who just use other people for a variety of reasons. Once you’ve been taken advantage of one too many times, it is hard to trust again.
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It’s pretty crappy when people have become as self centered and selfish as what we are running into. It doesn’t give much hope to those that really just want something meaningful without all the BS. Research has repeatedly shown that once a man hits age 35 or so and for the rest of his life, he at this site subconsciously envisions himself about 15 yrs younger than he really is. That’s why a 60-yr-old man in great shape will want – and feel perfectly normal around – a mid to late 40-something woman. Well, it seems to be a total nightmare for both sides, judging from the comments I’d read here.
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She wants to enjoy new experiences in life. While you’re an older guy and your younger woman wants to be inspired by your life experience and maturity, she doesn’t want to follow you on your path. Here are 10 key rules to follow if you plan on attracting and dating younger women. Anecdotes to support the rules are thanks to our friends at AskMen. However, there’s also research by the dating site OK Cupid that suggests women generally prefer to go for guys closer to their age.
What would you tell a friend in this situation? Imagine that a beloved, lifelong pal came to you and said they were nervous for a date with someone hotter or more established than they are. You’d—gently—tear them to bits for being so hard on themselves.
You’re the older guy, so it’s pretty obvious to you that she’s not always going to be attracted to your youthful glow. You need to attract her with your character and other good qualities. A younger woman doesn’t want to horse around.
My 12-year-old daughter has asked me when she can start dating. I wasn’t allowed to date until I was 18 because I had very strict parents. I didn’t sneak around and date either because I didn’t want to get into trouble with my parents. Let’s just say that I was sort of a goody two shoes and didn’t want to upset my parents.